Divorces almost always result in one parent relocating, sometimes simply to a different neighborhood, but other times to a whole other state. Usually, such relocation can have a significant impact on the child and their relationship with the noncustodial parent.
Moving out of state can come with utmost necessity, but that doesn’t mean your child should have to lose their relationship with their other parent. So, how can you relocate while minimizing the negative impact on visitation?
Make a plan with your coparent
Sharing custody always requires a careful plan to make sure it is in the best interests of your child. Together, you must address:
- Dates, duration and frequency of visits
- Transportation arrangements and how you will handle costs
- Communication plans between the child and both parents
- Emergency contacts and plans
- Any health and safety concerns (e.g., medications, allergies)
Ideally, you should flesh out this plan with your coparent before the move. Coming up with a fair agreement can be challenging, so it might be easier to handle it face-to-face.
Choose a safe and economical travel arrangement
Most airlines have an unaccompanied minor service where they will escort your child from one pick-up point to another. This can be a more economical option than traveling back and forth to hand them over to their other parent. Some bus and train companies offer the same service.
Alternatively, your coparent can visit your child in your home state. Some children are more comfortable in a familiar environment, and this setup can be better for their routine.
Always consider the best interests of your child
Interstate travel can be very challenging for children—long-distance relationships with their parents even more so.
With that in mind, the health and safety of your child should always come first. When handling interstate visitations, plan them out carefully, pick the safest routes and keep open lines of communication with the whole family.
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